Can You Handle A Sexually Aggressive Woman?
Men are used to being the ones that have to initiate everything in a relationship- from making first contact to taking the lead sexually. But now we have some new rules coming into play that are turning the game upside down.
We are constantly bombarded by images and personalities in the media that involve sexually assertive behaviour by females. Women are quickly picking up on the message that being sexually aggressive is acceptable behaviour- and the number of sexually explict personals ads in dating sites like Adult Friend Finder prove it.
A lot of guys find it very strange and intimidating when they find the table's turned, even when they have been fantasizing about the senario for years. Here are a few suggestions to make a relationship with a wild woman go a little smoother:
Women Want It All
Some men actually don't believe there are women out there just as interested in sex as they are. It's a sad commentary on the way our culture has progressed. Men have had it all for so long it's hard for a woman to get them to believe that they want it all too. Yes, many women fantasize about having sex with as many hot guys as possible, and preferably with more than one stud at the same time. The sexes are not so different, and yes, it is a big deal when she doesn't have an orgasm too.
Perhaps the greatest difference between men and women pleasure-wise is simply that most women do not have an orgasm from penetration- they prefer clitoral stimulation for orgasm and oral sex is #1 on their priority list. If you want to make her happy, you better make sure your tongue is in good shape.
For the most part masturbation is not about replacing sex. It's a precursor, it builds up sexual tension- it doesn't relieve it. There's an old dating trick of masturbating a couple of hours before sex to avoid premature ejaculation. It works. Coming in 5 minutes and requiring recuperation time will definitely turn off an aggressive woman. Staying power is a must.
More Critical Than Ever
Talk to her, ask her what she likes, what she wants to do next, and find out what she likes best. You don't have to be barking out orders like a general (unless she wants you to), and you don't have to be grovelling at her feet (again, unless she wants you to), but you are in for an entirely better sexual experience if you share with each other what you like and don't like. Every woman is different and asking is the best and easiest way to find out. Don't be shy at all when it comes to asking about boundaries, a lot of women will surprise you. They want a wild time as much as you do. As well, (and probably most importantly) asking is also the most efficient method of finding out what they don't like.
Buy Some Toys
Some women are hard to please- it's a fact. There are some insatiable babes out there that will get you to fuck them so long and hard your dick will feel like it's been slammed in a door a hundred times- and then they'll still want more. It's for these women that vibrators were invented. Get big ones, small ones, ribbed ones, double, etc. Try all kinds. If she's really wild she'll love 'em all and it will save you some effort and increase the intensity of every session.
Learn From The Best
When you do find a woman that is very sexually aggressive, use some of the strategies that women have used on aggressive men for centuries to heighten their sexual arousal. Think of all the things your old girlfriends used to do that made you crazy and then try them on your new lover. Some of the oldests standbys are the best, they're a little hard to explain, but here's a list:
- Be mysterious- only answer questions with indirect answers.
- Play hard to get- but not too hard.
- Use any excuse to touch her, without asking.
- Stare at her when she's not looking, when she looks, look away.
- Make her beg for it, then when she's in bed, start begging her to do things for you.
- Always be ready for sex, and always look your best.
If you've tried all the above advice and she's still not satisfied, don't worry about it. Some women are impossible to tame- especially sluts that go online looking for boy toys ;-) Just remember to have fun and to give her all you've got.
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