Tips To Last Longer In Bed Are you tired of being grilled with questions like, "is that it? Are you done?" Good sex is not all about how long you can last, but racing to the finish line is the number one complaint women have about their lovers. Here are a few tips that can turn any minuteman into a marathon lover. Get To Know Yourself Practice makes perfect. If you masturbate concentrating on prolonging your orgasm you will be able to repeat the performance in bed. Whack off as long as you can, as often as you can. Bring yourself as close to orgasm and stop just long enough that you can start all over again and bring yourself back to the same level of ecstasy, then start all over again. Make a game of seeing how many times as you can bring yourself to the edge without coming and pay attention to the signs and sensations your body gives you that you're about to come. It's possible to train yourself to withhold an orgasm at will, using this method alone. Foreplay Is Good Even though it doesn't really help you to last longer, it can seem like you have lasted longer if you spend more time on foreplay- with her. Make sure that you have touched every square inch of her body before you even lick her pussy. Extend foreplay to the point of driving you both crazy. She'll be a lot more appreciative, even if you do only make it thirty seconds in her pussy. Be careful about receiving too much foreplay yourself, every stimulation your cock receives is a queue to get ready to come, but only in a constant timeline. If it's possible, get her to give you head before you practice your foreplay skills on her. That way you'll have had a little break before she's begging for your cock. The Best Positions Everyone has different preferences for positions. There are some that you know will make you come fast, and others that seem to just keep you hard. Choose positions that you know aren't your favourite first, and when you are finally ready to come (or just about exhausted) switch to your favourite. Most men come quicker doggy style, less so with missionary and sex lying down on one side (spoon like). Cowgirl style is 50/50- it's strictly a personal preference. Some guys last longer when the woman is on top, some blow their wad as soon as she settles into the saddle. Condoms Despite all the hype and the advertising claims about increased sensitivity, nothing cuts the sensation of sex more than a condom. If you still have trouble coming too fast with one on, wear two. Use The Force Don't let self-fulfilling prophecies work against you, make them work for you. Remember, sexual stimulation is entirely in your mind. It might be hard to think so when a hot chick is riding you like a bronco, but it's true. You don't have to think about baseball or your grandmother naked (although those both work), but concentrating on not having an orgasm too soon does work, just stay focused. It has to do with the complex relationship our conscious mind has with our unconscious mind. If you truly convince yourself that you aren't going to come, you won't. It also works in reverse, so be careful- if you think you're going to come too soon, you will. Put These Tips To Good Use Join Adult Friend Finder And Get Laid. The Largest Sex Personals Site On The Internet It's Free, It's Easy, And It Works