So You Want To Fuck Her In The Ass…|
Anal sex can be one of the most enjoyable forms of sex for both partners, but there are a few concerns that must be addressed and some tricks that will make it a lot more enjoyable. It's one of the most intense sexual experiences possible because it takes a lot of trust from a woman and it's such a different experience from normal sex.
Wear A Condom
The colon is filled with billions of nasty bacteria all the time. Even if she has used an enema it still doesn't clean things up enough to make it safe. If you don't use a condom the act of anal sex will force bacteria down the urethra of your penis (you're pee hole) and you will get a bacterial infection. It's a guarantee, and depending on the luck of the draw some of the infections can be very nasty.
It has nothing to do with the number of her previous sexual partners- it's just that the colon is naturally filled with bacteria, although sheathing up to protect yourself from an STD is a good idea.
Get Some Good Lube
The colon does not provide extra lubrication as the vagina does. You can never have enough lube for anal sex. Use a water-based lubricant though, Vaseline and other oil-based lubricants coat the colon wall and will facilitate infection for her. Don't get cheap either- go to the nearest love shop and buy the best lubricant you can. Usually people that work in a sex shop are more than willing to let you know what works best. Don't be shy.
There are some lubricants on the market that have a numbing agent in them and claim to be specially made for anal sex. Avoid them- anal sex should never hurt, and not knowing if it hurts or not is a sure way to end up tearing the colon wall. It will hurt her whole lot more when the numbing agent wears off and infection sets in.
The Best Positions
For beginners, lying on your side spoon style is best, followed by doggy style with the woman leaning over a large pillow or a couple of small pillows. For the woman, anal sex is all about relaxing and the key to relaxation is proper breathing and letting the tension of out the muscles in the abdomen.
Bending over a pile of pillows allows her to get rid of all the tension in her midsection and focus on the muscles of her anus. The position of woman on top is not recommended for beginners because it's difficult for the woman to relax in this position.
Start With A Finger
If you're not in a monogamous relationship, roll a condom over your finger. The colon is curved, but when relaxed it will spread out. Thrusting without proper relaxation (even with a finger) can tear a hole in the colon wall and cause severe damage. Be very gentle.
Start with one finger and cram as much lubricant as you possibly can into her ass. Start out very slow, but get her to the point where she can be finger fucked easily. Then work a second finger into her ass before attempting to penetrate her with your cock.
In the spoon position, let her hold the base of your cock and guide it inside her very slowly. With doggy style, the man is in more control, go very slow and make sure you can feel her accept the head of your cock. Do not attempt any in and out motion until she has fully accepted the intrusion of your penis in her ass.
There are two sphincters in the colon, an inner one and an outer one. They are the circular muscles that have to be relaxed to allow your cock full entry. They aren't small either; together they surround the first two inches inside her ass. This is called the anal canal, and after which your cock will proceed to her rectum, a cavity approximately 5 inches long where she normally stores shit. If your cock is more than 7 inches long, be very careful. The colon is not capable of expanding as the vagina is, and anything longer than 7 inches will simply not fit and likely tear the wall of the colon.
Some Helpful Toys
Anal beads, vibrators, thin dildos, vibrating eggs (small ones) are all very good toys to help her get ready. They are also by themselves very enjoyable toys. As with everything dealing with her ass, use a lot of lube and disinfect them afterwards with hydrogen peroxide. Do not put a dildo that has been in her ass into her pussy, she will get an infection. By the way, the same goes for your fingers and your cock.
Still Can't Convince Her?
Most women do not practice anal sex on a regular basis because they've had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant lover in the past. That being said, there are still a lot of women that love it up the ass and don't feel that sex is complete without it. If your wife/girlfriend doesn't like it and won't budge, try finding an experienced woman online. A woman's ass is the tightest and hottest place a man can put his cock. It's a wild ride.
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